Alright, alright... I got a lot of mixed opinions/emotions about my little dating post. I'm not going to take it back. But I will put a few clarifying thoughts for those of you who are "miffed" by what I said.
1.) This is for College aged people. Those sort of dates are fine for High Schoolers
1.) This is for College aged people. Those sort of dates are fine for High Schoolers
2.) These are also specifically geared towards first date experiences. Some of these are really fun dates (fishing, bowling....) If you know this person really well already, then these are totally acceptable.
3.) I also understand that if you like the person enough then no matter what you do, it will be fun.
4.) Also, this is also geared towards my own taste and opinion BECAUSE many of you asked why I did not put "going to the movies" down. I happen to really enjoy seeing movies because a) I like movies b) I'm too poor to go see them with my own money c) I love watching movie previews....
To conlcude.... I would just like to say that all girls are looking for is a little innovation. All of the dates I listed, are just kinda dull. Every girl has been on at least a dozen bowling/mini golf dates and as a first date it isn't going to be as memorable as it could be by doing something else. I went on a date a couple of months ago where the guy was kinda.... dull. But, what we did, made up for it. We went to dinner (boys, every girl loves food) and then we went to a Story-telling night at Muse Cafe in downtown Provo. It was really fun. I honestly cant remember what he looks like or what we talked about (and frankly I felt like I had a nose bleed talking to him) but I remember what we did. And I remember enjoying myself.
So my plea is to just think outside the box.
You can take it or leave it. But I can guarantee that I'm NOT the only girl who thinks this way in Utah County.
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